Guys and girls don’t always communicate the same way.

Learn to listen to your partner’s point of view and think from their perspective before jumping to conclusions.

The most successful relationships are the ones where both partners learn to look at things from each other’s perspectives all the time.

6 Ways to really love the people in your life!

1. Tell them how great they are and how much you appreciate them.

2. Be genuine and real in your relationships. Don’t pretend and wear a mask but share your true, authentic self.

3. Note, however, that being genuine doesn’t mean always dumping your garbage on those around you. Be respectful of their needs and feelings too – and recognise that we influence and affect others moods. That is, we can choose to either brighten or pollute the atmosphere.

4. Be a great listener. We feel loved and valued when others really listen to us.

5. Don’t try to fix, change and make them into different people. Instead, provide them with the freedom to simpy be themselves.

6. We don’t have to agree with, or respect, each others choices in order to have a good relationship with them. We can still be kind, and just agree to disagree.

Wait for a man that…

…will put in the time, heart, and effort to pursue you.

None of this whole “chasing around boys who don’t really like us and pine when they reject us” business.

Wait for God to set you up with one who will put in time to win your heart.

How can he do that though if you’re throwing it at him?

Be secure enough in yourself and your father that you don’t need to throw your heart around and give it away to any man who winks his eye at you.

Be a woman, secure in God, deadly to the devil, feminine in strength, purity, and tenderness, and give your man a chance to be a man.

Let the boys go who blow you off and expect you to let them walk all over you or just plain won’t put in effort to get to know you at all.

Let them go, and position yourself as a woman satisfied in herself & her life.

Give yourself to knowing God, give yourself to loving others, and your man will come alongside you.

You will never have to strive to make him like you, to make him talk to you.

He will be already a man in pursuit of your heart without your help.

Be with someone who is proud of you.

Someone who, first and foremost, takes pride in being with you and wouldn’t dream of keeping you on the down low.

Someone who acknowledge your accomplishments and your strengths, but is also there to help you when your weaknesses get the best of you.

Someone who is proud when you succeed and supports you fully, but is also there to pick you up when you fall down.

Someone who feels blessed and lucky to have you and appreciates you and your efforts no matter how little or big they may be.

Someone who knows that nobody could compare because they’ve already found someone who embodies all that they’ve ever wanted.